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Staying Involved in Your Senior Parents’ Home Care

Home Care in Wayland, MA – Establish Good Communication and a Positive Relationship with Your Elderly Loved One’s Non-Medical Home Care Provider from the Beginning

Elderly couple with caregiverFor many family caregivers, adding in-home care to their elder care plan is truly a blessing. Your aging parents may be coping with cognitive and physical challenges that make it difficult for them to handle their activities of daily living, home management tasks, and errands. Having a non-medical in-home care provider come into the home gives you peace of mind knowing that your elderly parents are healthy and safe even when you are not able to be with them.

Relying on the professional services of a non-medical in-home care provider, however, does not mean that you have to give up all of your involvement in the care of your parents. Your elderly loved ones are still your responsibility and it is important that you look at this care provider not as a replacement for your care, but as an integral part of your overall elder care plan. Staying involved in this plan helps you feel more confident in the level of care your parents receive and lets them feel sure secure that they are still important to you.

Making yourself an ever-present element of your aging parents’ care from the moment you hire the home care provider establishes a network of care, making it evident that you want to be an active part in giving your parents the highest quality of life possible.

Here are some ways for you to get and stay connected with your parents’ home care:

  • Spend time with the caregiver. When you select the caregiver, plan one-on-one time with him or her. Sit down with a cup of coffee or take a walk around the neighborhood to give you a chance to get to know the caregiver and help her feel comfortable with you
  • Establish a chain of communication. Make sure you are available to the caregiver to discuss your aging parents, their care, and any concerns the caregiver may have. Give her the phone numbers that are best for getting you and share your email address so she always feels like she can get in touch with you if she needs you
  • Ask for status reports. Whether you come to see your parents every day or are only able to get to their home once a week, make sure you are kept up-to-date on your parents’ condition, their activities, and anything the caregiver thinks you may need to know. Many home care agencies give each non-medical care provider a care journal to leave at the home, but if your non-medical care provider does not, purchase a spiral notebook and leave it somewhere easily accessible in the home. Make the first page a template that includes what you want the non-medical care provider to note each day. Be sure to read this journal regularly
  • Take on some responsibilities. Go beyond just knowing what is happening in your aging parents’ care and actually get hands-on as often as you can. Choose certain tasks you will handle or help the care provider perform more complex tasks such as bathing or grooming
  • Have regular meetings with the team. Plan meetings with the non-medical home care providers who care for your parents every week to discuss the week ahead and make plans. This does not have to be a long meeting, but coming together for a few minutes gives the non-medical care providers a chance to voice any concerns they may have, ask questions, and make suggestions, and for you to create the schedule for the upcoming week so everyone is comfortable with the plans ahead.

If you or an aging loved one are considering non-medical in-home care in Metrowest Boston, MA, call Griswold Home Care and speak to one of our caring staff members today. Call (781) 559-0073